guess what ladies, there's a kind of guy who is only 'feminist' bc he thinks it means he'll get laid (feminist = sexually accessible, easier than the 'prudes'). He is not a feminist and is not joking either. he's a disingenuous prick posing as an ally who wants to do none of the work and doesn't even acknowledge the actual problem, has no empathy for your struggles and will dismiss anything that actually requires self-reflection.