New rules: - don't entertain or welcome into your personal life people who invalidate your experiences - you know more than people who promote themselves, and really need to shrink vast depths of knowledge into bite size chunks for public consumption, or you'll get overwhelmed by your own internal essays. ppl need knowledge, not the obvious conclusions, and definitely not superficial entertainment posing as substance. - haters gonna hate. maintain transparency but explain yourself to no one. let the record stand clear.