It's funny, as soon as a man sees a woman as a sexual being, he can't respect her ability to reason.  It's as if those two traits can't exist at the same time, in the same person.  And it becomes the woman's problem to deal with that because a man will just deny her observations as overreacting or crazy, because, again, he doesn't respect her ability to reason anymore.  Or rather, he doesn't want to deal with the inconvenience of a reasonable person resolving problems, because sex should be easy and uncomplicated, why is she making it complicated with all those thoughts, all those needs to be treated like, gasp, a person.