Why is the gym playing the food network

Age old tradition called numb one pain with another.

Don't confuse fearlessness with a nice bed of security.

Filtering out information that you can't handle is not the same as hiding truths.  People don't have the time to educate you about all the shit you don't know and won't make an effort to learn.  I do not exist to service your personal development and intellectual life and all the drama that goes with it.  If I'm tip toeing around your fragile worldview and ego, it's because you're the problem.  Not because I'm hiding anything.  Don't get it twisted.

I don't trust that people hold themselves accountable, especially if they have been raised coddled.

you know if the situation were flipped with sex trafficking gender-wise, the Janes would be peddling males that were pre-groomed to be emotionally intelligent.  but it would fail as an industry because what the customers really want is something lasting and real, in the realm of emotions, which are unseen.  And that ability to recognize that unseen things are more real and substantive and powerful than physical things, now that's intellectual evolution. 

Ooo!  make philosoraptor shirt that says "why do men talk?"

I don't have any willpower left after a draining childhood with chronic emotional manipulation full of harassment, coercion and belittling to exert any energy on coddling a man into maturity. 

the only ones that bother are players because the normal ones are cowards.

http://www.newstatesman.com/politics/feminism/2016/04/why-do-we-give-robots-female-names-because-we-dont-want-consider-their

sometimes 'realists' are just pessimists with a superiority complex.

call out culture is a thing now because for so long our culture has been apathetic.  call out culture is the alternative to going postal in the face of shitstains that won't be reigned in by anyone or their (lacking) sense of accountability or personal development.  It's creating a village code for what is acceptable and what isn't where institutions of justice have failed or become simply rendered useless by bureaucracy and expense.  yes, it indicates a breakdown in social trust often assuming that people aren't listening or don't care - only because that is often the case.  Call out culture makes the default that trust should be earned and trust matters.  Not just one's intelligence or ability to make a profit.

go away you are irrelevant!

BRAVE YOURSELVES: I HAVE SOME OPINIONS TODAY.

associated traits in men:

passion - flakiness
cleverness - douchebaggery
kindness - cluelessness

I just *have* to take the more painful uncomfortable option don't I.

Don't be around people who deny your credibility but don't be around people who inflate your worth either.

http://nofilmschool.com/2016/04/paradox-choice-how-limitations-can-help-you-make-best-film

Biggest benefit of privilege is people trying to coddle you into some really hard truths about your privilege rather than being straight up.  People fear truth-rejection bc they know you won't personal development your way into it, but they still need you as an ally to change the shitty behavior of your privileged group.

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